2025 破什么会让你的心态超越99%的同龄人

2025年破什么会让你的心态超越99%的同龄人?

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于我而言,是破我执。

本科学哲学的黄子华是我喜欢的香港演员之一,由他领衔主演的电影 《破地狱》以香港殡葬行业为蓝本,讲述死亡这一深刻话题。

 

“破地狱” 起初是香港道家超渡亡灵的传统仪式,现今已作为一项殡葬仪式被纳入中国非物质文化遗产名录。

影片中给我印象最深刻的故事是一位母亲,在儿子离世半年后,仍然舍不得将其下葬。她对儿子的爱无比执着,跨越生死,让人唏嘘。有别于取走内脏再制作木乃伊的做法,她一心想要完整地保留儿子的遗体,满心期待着在未来科技昌明之时,或许可以盼来儿子的起死回生。

“破地狱”,其本意乃在于打破地狱对亡者的禁锢枷锁,然而殊不知,在世之人亦亟需一场心灵的 “超渡”。尘世之中仿若存有 “地狱”,那便是深植于我们内心的诸般执念。你我皆为尘世凡人,各自怀揣着形形色色的执念。“退一步海阔天空” 之语,我们已然听闻过太多回,可每每身处具体情境之中,却常常难以释怀,不愿放下执念,去冲破那禁锢心灵的牢笼。

对于死亡,人皆向死而生,就像搭乘人生列车,到站了就下车,仿若雁过无痕,不着于念。

境随心转,当心境转变,周遭万物亦随之而变。无论将其视作认知与格局的提升,还是能量场的进阶,摆脱我执也罢,一切都会过去的。

心有不甘时,便竭尽所能做好分内之事,其余种种,皆交付于岁月洪流,毕竟执着于不可控之事,终是徒劳无益。

在那部剧中,与黄子华相伴多年的女友怀孕了,黄子华起初并并不愿迎接这个新生命的降临,他的理由是他已经五十多岁了,他担忧当自己好不容易与孩子建立起深厚情感,孩子正值青春韶华之际,他却不得不面对生命的终结,如此场景是他所不愿面对的。

不知是否有朋友和我一样,对福宝熊猫情有独钟?姜爷爷和宋爷爷早在福宝出生那天就知道,福宝长大了要回归祖国,但这丝毫未减损他们给予福宝的疼爱与关怀。在相伴的时光里,他们全心付出爱意,尽情品味着相处的温馨与美好。

Fubao Panda 福宝熊猫

其实即便心怀 “我执”,也可以尽情体验和享受这来之不易的人生旅程,哪怕生命从一开始便似进入倒计时,又有何妨?就如张曼玉所言:“我的人生,我来创造。” 

2025 年乙巳蛇年,让我们满怀期待地奔赴新程!

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2025年你准备以什么样的心态度过? 获许可以从你的AI 小助手为你选的书里找到答案

2025年你读的第一本书是什么?如果没感觉,不妨问问自己的人工智能小助手。

我的 AI 小助手帮我选的是法国作家阿尔贝·加缪创作的哲学随笔《西西弗斯神话》。

在希腊神话中,西西弗斯(Sisyphus)是风神埃俄罗斯(Aeolus)之子。他因触怒宙斯(Zeus),受到惩罚,需要每天将巨石推往山顶,可巨石每次刚到山顶,便不受控制地滚落下来,如此循环往复,周而复始。

按理来说这般单调无聊、永无止境且毫无成就感的苦役,西西弗斯应该陷入巨大的绝望中。

然而,有一天当西西弗斯下山准备再次推动巨石时,路过的爱神(Aphrodite)却见他笑容满面,神采奕奕。不禁感到十分诧异,于是问道:“你做着这么无聊的事情,为何还能如此高兴?”

西西弗斯兴奋地指着手中的花朵,向爱神展示着自己的意外收获:“你看,我在山腰处发现了这朵美丽无比的花。”

西西弗斯日复一日地推着那块永远无法静止的巨石是徒劳的,但他因此走过的山路,采过的鲜花,还有呼吸到的山间清新的空气,无一不是真实可触的自然馈赠,绝非徒劳。

生活何尝不是如此?本就是由日常的点点滴滴汇聚而成,我们的喜怒哀乐,酸甜苦辣相互交融,沾满了柴米油盐的烟火气和各种琐碎细微的瞬间。如果我们一心只盯着遥不可及的目标,一路狂奔,很容易忽略沿途那些悄然绽放的小小的美好。

所以,在2025年,不妨用心体悟每一个当下,主动营造一种内在的宁静。不要错过那些只属于我们自己的无数个小小的惊喜。2025年让我们的心变得柔软而敏感,适当放下对周围的一些不必要的戒备,让心灵变得柔软和充满爱意,尽情拥抱生活的每一面。让我们一起淡定、从容地生活!

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What mindset should you have in 2025? Your AI assistant’s book recommendation might hold the answer

What is the first book you’ve read in 2025? If you’re unsure, perhaps your AI assistant can help!


My AI assistant recommended The Myth of Sisyphus, a philosophical essay by French writer Albert Camus.

In Greek mythology, Sisyphus, the son of Aeolus, the god of wind, angered Zeus and was condemned to an eternal punishment. Each day, he was forced to push a boulder up a mountain, only for it to roll back down just before reaching the summit — an endless cycle of monotonous and seemingly futile labour.


Logically, one might expect Sisyphus to fall into despair from such an unrelenting and purposeless task.

But one day, as Sisyphus descended the mountain to begin again, the goddess of love passed by and noticed him smiling and in high spirits. Surprised, she asked, “How can you be so happy while doing something so repetitive and dull?”

With excitement, Sisyphus pointed to a beautiful flower in his hand and replied, “Look! I found this on the mountainside. Isn’t it wonderful?”

Sisyphus pushed the boulder endlessly, knowing it would never stay at the top, yet the mountain paths he traversed, the flowers he picked, and the fresh air he breathed were all real and tangible gifts. These moments were not in vain.

Isn’t life the same? It’s a tapestry woven from daily moments — our joys and sorrows, frustrations and happiness, triumphs and setbacks, all intertwined. If we focus solely on distant, seemingly unreachable goals and rush through life, we risk overlooking the quiet beauty that blooms along the way.

In 2025, let us fully embrace each moment with intention and cultivate inner peace. Let’s not miss the countless small surprises that are uniquely ours to discover. Let our hearts grow soft and sensitive, shedding unnecessary vigilance around us and embracing every aspect of life.


Together, let’s live this year with a sense of serenity and fulfillment.

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At the Tokyo Olympics 2020, which athletes have impressed you so far?

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The athlete who impressed me was 46-year-old Oksana Chusovitina of Uzbekistan. Chusovitina was born in 1975.

Oksana Chusovitina of Uzbekistan

She won the Junior Championship at the age of 13, and the World Championship in 1991. She also won the gold medal in the team competition at the 1992 Barcelona Olympics.

Oksana has represented the Soviet Union, CIS, Uzbekistan, Germany, and now represents Uzbekistan in the competition. She has won a total of 11 world medals, including silver medals in the vault at the age of 16 and 36. There are five gymnastics skills named after her. Her mother said that the career of a gymnast was too short, but she participated in the Olympic Games eight times and broke history.

Part of the reason she continued to participate in the competition was for her sick son. Her son Alisher was diagnosed with leukemia in 2002, and winning the competitions could pay for his son’s high medical expenses.

Oksana and her son Alisher

Another motivation came from her husband’s encouragement. Her husband Bahodir Kurbanov is a wrestler who has participated in two Olympics. In order to continue the game, she underwent surgery on her back, shoulders and ankles. Now her son is 22 years old and in good health.

Long-term training is boring for ordinary people, but for her, “every day will bring new blessings and new inspiration.” In the face of young and powerful competitors, Oksana competed for herself.

Many times, society, relatives and friends around us, and even ourselves set a lot of restrictions on ourselves. We dare not try, fear losing face, and can’t stand the long-term efforts in the process. On the other hand, we envy other people’s lives, which is not a good way to live. Do you agree?

Oksana’s personal experience tells us that no matter what kind of test life gives us, we have the ability to overcome difficulties. Find what we are really interested in, and are willing to fight for a long time, and enjoy it every day!

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Paid members will receive our systematic and accompanying training, witness their growth with fellow members around the world, become a better version of themselves, and ultimately achieve financial freedom and time freedom.

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Think Independently

Father’s Day Video Series 2 – What was dad’s intention?

What is the difference between ordinary entrepreneurs and top entrepreneurs?

How to deal with the uncertain environment

The No.1 reason why people can’t focus

Treadmill Phenomenon

Life Wisdom

Father’s Day Video Series 1 – Never give up!

Father’s Day Video Series 3 – Did you understand your dad’s efforts?

Do you live like a hamster?

Father’s Day Video Series 4 – Father / Daughter Dialogue

Is our destiny in our own hand?

The Last Lecture

Which book was hailed as a miracle in the publishing industry and sold over 5 million copies in the United States alone? What will you do in the last few months of your life?

Man’s Search for Meaning

Which book has published in 73 editions, more than 9 million copies sold and with more than 20 translations? How to find meaning in life through suffering in an environment of extreme pain? How to detach yourself from difficulties and refill yourself with love?

Tao Te Ching Chapter 9 – How big is your desire?

How big is your desire? What is the relationship between income and happiness?

After Tao Te Ching (道德经 dào dé jīnɡ) was translated into Latin in the late 18th century, it has been translated into many languages. It is the second most translated book in the world after the Bible. I would like to integrate the opinions of various experts and combine my own experience over the years to talk about Tao Te Jing. As the Chinese old saying says to throw bricks to attract jade; I hope to provide you with some wisdom to deal with the complex and uncertain future.

Tao Te Ching Chapter 8 – What can we learn from water?

What characteristics of water are worth learning? – Learn wisdom from Tao Te Ching to deal with uncertainty.

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Demystifying Metaverse – The Driving Force Behind Cutting-Edge tech

What concept you must understand in the post COVID-19 era?

SambaNova Systems – an AI chip unicorn

AI Depression Detection

How 5G will change our future

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Why did Gartner rank the Internet of Behaviours (IoB) at the top of the nine technology trends in 2021?

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If you are determined to achieve financial freedom and time freedom through long-term efforts, then please:

1. Watch our values video series carefully.

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2. Watch our Q&A video series carefully.

Q&A #1 – How long does it take to become your own boss?

Q&A #2 – Why do we need to think independently?

Q&A #3 – Is knowledge useful?

3. Watch our challenges video series carefully and test yourself whether you know all the answers?

Challenge #1 – Which island do you want to live on and why? 

Challenge #2 – How can you increase sales without increasing costs?

Challenge #3 – How would you respond?

Challenge #4 – Would you buy? 

Challenge #5 – Do you think human beings can think freely?

Challenge #6 – How many piano tuners are there in Toronto?

Challenge #7 – Why does the law require such regulation?

Challenge #8 – How would you respond?

Challenge #9 – Should Mary pay?

Challenge #10 – Which size pizza would you buy?

Challenge #11 – Who should maintain orders?

If you think you can answer all the challenges, you don’t need to join this program. We wish you all the best!

 If you have not figured out the answers to all the challenges, and are determined to continue to grow yourself with this program, please send your Linkedin profile link to info@mansinternational.com

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Mans International “Be Your Own Boss” Program is designed to help people from all walks of life around the world who are committed to changing their way of thinking, improving their abilities, and achieving financial freedom and time freedom.

Before You Start

First of all, I’m sorry to tell you that it takes a long time to realize financial freedom and time freedom. If for whatever reason, you have obtained a large amount of wealth,  it doesn’t mean that you achieved financial freedom automatically. Because you may not have the ability and psychological capacity to manage large amounts of wealth, the money will be consumed at a rate you can’t imagine. 

You might say, can I just ask a financial professional to help me take care of my wealth? The question I asked was do you have the ability to select an outstanding and suitable professional?

If you feel that you ALREADY have independent thinking and various skills, then you do not need to participate in this program! All the best!

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Value #4 – Never give up Watch the video

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If you meet the requirements, congratulations, you will embark on a new journey to financial freedom and time freedom under our continuous guidance.

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Before You Go

Every year we make plans. Every day we receive tons of information and learn a lot of knowledge, but why most people still can’t make choices that are beneficial to themselves in the long run, achieve their goals, and become a better version of themselves? 

Think about these questions when you have time.

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